He will never give up on you!

An encouraging story for u.........



Dear All,



Do you know that God would not give anyone of us a challenge that we could not handle.

And even as we are still struggling, we have grown in our roots.



Don’t compare yourself to others, for God has a different purpose for each of us,

yet we made to fit beautifully in his plans.


One day I decided to quit...I quit my job, my relationship,
my spirituality... I wanted to quit my life.

I went to the woods to have one last talk with God.
"God", I said. "Can you give me one good reason not to quit?"
His answer surprised me...

"Look around", He said. "Do you see the fern and the bamboo?"

"Yes", I replied.

"When I planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, I took very
< TT>good care of them. I gave them light. I gave them water.
The fern quickly grew from the earth. Its brilliant green
covered the floor. Yet nothing came from the bamboo seed.
But I did not quit on the bamboo. In the second year the
Fern grew more vibrant and plentiful. And again, nothing
came from the bamboo seed. But I did not quit on the bamboo."
He said.

"In year three there was still nothing from the bamboo seed.
But I would not quit.

In year four, again, there was nothing from the bamboo seed.
I would not quit." He said.

"Then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth.
Compared to the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant...
But just 6 months later the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall.
It had spent the five years growing roots. Those roots made
it strong and gave it what it needed to survive. I would not
give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle."
He said to me.

"Did you know, my child, that all this time you have been
struggling, you have actually been gro wing roots?"

"I would not quit on the bamboo. I will never quit on you."

"Don't compare yourself to others." He said. "The bamboo had a
different purpose than the fern. Yet they both make the forest
beautiful."

"Your time will come", God said to me. "You will rise high"

"How high should I rise?" I asked.

"How high will the bamboo rise?" He asked in return.

"As high as it can?" I questioned

"Yes." He said, "Give me glory by rising as high as you can."

I left the forest and bring back this story. I hope these words
can help you see that God will never give up on you.

He will never give up on you!

Jocelyn's Bdae

D&D fotos

~eVeNtS oN 14tH oCt 2005~

~call to me, and i will answer you, and i will show great and mighty things, which you do not know. Jeremiah 33:3~

hi all~~~hmmm...i think it's been a mth since i've really blog...usually juz cut and paste from fwd emails...i'm juz too bz at work and for exams...hee...so sorry folks dat i'm onli writing now...esp Mr Zhengda...complaining its too boring here...hmph!...niwae...tot of writing 2dae cos of 2 interesting programs i had last nite(14th Oct 2005)...bz nite...but interesting...really had fun...hee...
yup...14th Oct is my company's D&D...actually was Card Centre's D&D...but CCOC also joined in...cos we r always soo united...hee...yup...hmmm...days b4 the D&D...ppl were already soo excited on wat they r gona wear on that dae...cos the theme is Retro...hee...but as for me...i cant wear retro...cos dat nite was also Jocelyn's Bdae party...formal...at tower club(if i'm not wrong)...hee...yea...so i have decided on my Fond Hugs dress...yea...hmmm...on th 14th itself...every1 were so excited...kinda not really concentrating @ work...hee...not onli dat...we were allowed to off work at 530pm instead of 630pm...hee...but makes no big diff for me...cos my boss lor...ask mi do dis n dat...yah...den was quite pissed lah...hahaha...after dat i got changed...den prepare to go for Joce's Bdae...wanted to take cab..but the que n jam was v long...so boh bian...took a train...yup...went alone...kinda sad lor...din meet up w the rest...den made mi even more pissed...when i reached...i sort of din noe how to go...actually i shld have known its at Republic Plaza...n i noe how to go...but in the end i walked another direction..kinda got lost...den even more pissed...was thinkin dat after i gave her the present den i'll leave...in the end i managed to find serena...cos i was on my way to RP again...so din meet them...but b4 i reached there...i saw them...den we went in together...
this pub was at the 64th storey...wow...its really a v nice place...yup...classy...hee...by den my mood already bcame alot better...hmm...ate abit...den prepare to go off for my D&D...hmmm...btw the toilet @ the pub was really cool...hee...hmmm...
i took a cab down to Marina Mandarin...Jacky(Joce's bro) took with me since he is goin home...hmmm...luckily when i went down...they onli started the 1st dish...cos got speech b4 dat...hee...den my colleagues kept some lobster for me...yummy...hee...den got to eat the rest of the dishes...including shark's fin..hee...yummy...hee...but din eat much though...cos drank too much...oops...hee...yah...drank wine...champagne and beer...cos my table's ppl not the drinking type...so i went over to other table to drink...haa...alot of ppl were drunk lor...dead drunk...haha...there's a guy even went to gal's toilet puke...hahahah...for me...every1 thought i was drunk...but i was quite sober...only dat i was very red...n head super pain...n canot walk dat straight...hee...well...dats me...i danced alot too...even at the stage...hee...yup...i even won the 35th prize...hee...perfume...duno wat brand...hee...and 1 more thing that God really blessed me with...n i'm really happy i remembered my lucky draw number...hee...cos while i was taking photos outside...i heard my number being called out!hee...i dun really noe wat the prize is...i quickly ran in and shouted its me b4 the prize was forfeited...hee...and never did i noe that the prize is the bonus prize...when i went up the stage to receive my prize,the prize giver...if i'm not wrong is Ms Janice Ang...the Head of Card Centre...hee...she told me at my ear that its the bonus prize of $1,000 Travel voucher...i was like...nothing to say...v happy...cos never in my life i've won such a big things...usually small small items...haa...was really shocked...but i have to add this...it's God's blessing to me...Thank You Lord...hee...yup...v happy...however...i really duno how am i to use it...my leave are soo little...sadz...all used up for my exams...hmmm...sian...hmmm...see how ba...hmmm...yah after getting the prize n takin afew more pics...i went up to the committee's hotel room to rest...drank tea n puke alot...in the toilet lah...hee...den ard 2plus 3am i feel alot better...den a colleague sent me n another colleague home...hee...yah...den went home n slept all the way till 1plus pm...hee...yah...dats how everything goes...yup...really had alot of fun...hee...will not forget this day...hee...
yup...dats all for the night...gona watch tv...take gd care all...duno when i gona write again...hee...

God Bless n Be Happy always~
:)

Ladies Period Caution

Don't know how true it is...
(Guys: Please remind your girlfriend, fiancee, wife, mistress)

Pls disseminate to your gal frens...

It has been a traditional theory that ladies are not suppose to
wash their hair during their period. But there are no solutions to
the question why? The victim will only realise at their later
stage of their life, facing the symptoms of breast and ovary cancer.

Today ladies still wash their hair during their period with the
thinking that they will be safe if they blow dry their hair. But
this will not prevent them from getting the cancer. Please read
the article below:

A well known Taiwanese medical professor specialise in cancer
research based in a Japanese university did a survey on 30,000
pre cancer patients.

She found these patients are very choosy in their food, wash their
hair during their period and carry heavy object and drink cold drinks.
This will cause the incomplete of ovulation and the remaining
menses will turn into toxic and the imbalance of hormone will
lead to ovary and breast cancer.

During the research she found the method of prevention to these cancer.

The secrets are;
1. One must change their lifestyle and eating habits.
2. Do not wash our hair while having period
3. Excessive bleeding must be investigated by a gynae, do not wash
your hair just for the cooling effect and contraction of ovary.
4. No cold drinks.

If you feel drowsy, breast expansion and constipation these are
the early symptom of ovary or breast cancer.

To prevent use:
1. black sugar 2. Chinese lotus (leng ngau) 3. Carrot and 4.Barley

Boil to soup and drink. This is the best prevention.

CHEERS!!

chinese jokes

(1)
> 有一位病人来找精神科医师.
> 病人:我一直觉得我是一只鸟.
> 医生:喔.那很严重喔.从什么时候开始的.
> 病人:从我还是一只小鸟的时候.
>
> (2)
> 有一位神经病院的医生问患者:如果我把你的一只耳朵割掉.你会怎样?
> 那位患者回答:那我会听不到.
> 医生听了:嗯嗯.很正常.
> 医生又问道:那如果我再把你另一只耳朵也割掉.你会怎样?
> 那位患者回答:那我会看不到.
> 医生开始紧张了.怎么会看不到咧.?
> 患者回答:因为眼镜会掉下来.
>
> (3)
> 有两个神经病患.从病院里逃出来.
> 两人跑啊跑.爬到一棵树上.
> 其中一个人从树上跳下来.
> 滚啊滚的.
> 然後抬起头对上面的人说:喂------你怎么还不下来啊---------?
> 上面的那个人回答他:不---行---啊------
> 我还没有熟-----------
>
> (4)
> 神经病院有一位老太太.
> 每天都穿著黑色的衣服.拿著黑色的雨伞.
> 蹲在神经病院门口.
> 医生就想:要医治她.一定要从了解她开始.
> 於是那位医生也穿黑色的衣服.拿著黑色的雨伞.和她一起蹲在那边.
> 两人不言不语的蹲了一个月.
> 那位老太太终於开口和医生说话了:
> 请问一下-------
> 你---也是香菇吗------?
>
> (5)
> 某精神病院听说领导要来医院视察情况,于是,院长召集所的病人开会在会
> 上,院
> 长 讲道："今天下午,有很重要的领导要来参观,所有的人都要去门口欢迎.在欢迎
> 的时
> 候,所有病人站在医院大门口两边,要站整齐,当我咳嗽的时候,大家一起鼓掌,越热
> 烈越
> 好；我跺脚的时候必须全部停止,不能有一个出错.要大家都做好了,今天晚上可以
> 给大
> 家吃肉包子,只要有一个人弄砸了,所有的人都没有包子吃,记住了吗？"台下病人一
> 起喊
> 道："记住了！"
> 这天下午,领导准时到来,当他步入大门的时候,欢迎的病人已在门口站好了
> 这时,
> 随着院长一声咳嗽,所有的病人一起鼓掌欢迎,气氛十分热烈.来参观的领导受到热
> 烈气
> 氛的感染,面带笑容,和大家一起鼓掌步入医院.见领导已经走进了医院,院长一跺
> 脚,所
> 有的掌声都停止了,非常整齐.只有这位领导还在面带笑容一边鼓掌一前行,院长感
> 到非
> 常满意.
> 忽然,从欢迎的人群里窜出来一个壮如施瓦辛格的病人,大步冲到领导面前,抡
> 圆了
> 给了他一个大耳光,气愤异常地吼道--"你丫不想吃包子了？！！！"
>
> (6)
> 精神病人甲问乙说：“你看我最近完成的这本小说怎么样”？
> 乙看了看回答：“不错不错.不过,就是人物多了点儿”.
> 这时,精神病院的护士进来说：“你们把电话号码本给我放回去！”
>
> (7)
> 某精神病院大夫准备与一位即将出院的精神病人谈一谈,以确认该病人是否已经完
> 全康
> 复.
> 大夫：你出院以后准备干些什么呢？
> 病人：拿石头把你们医院的窗户玻璃全部打烂.
> 大夫听后发现这个病人还没有完全康复,因此决定继续治疗.又过了几个月以后,大
> 夫觉
> 得这个病人好象可以出院了,就决定再和他谈谈.
> 大夫：你出院以后准备干些什么呢？
> 病人：找份工作.
> 大夫：然后呢？
> 病人：挣钱.
> 大夫：然后呢？
> 病人：攒钱.
> 大夫：然后呢？
> 病人：娶个媳妇.
> 大夫：然后呢？
> 病人：洞房.
> 大夫：然后呢？
> 病人：把她的衣服脱了.
> 大夫：然后呢？
> 病人：把她的裤子脱了.
> 大夫：然后呢？
> 病人：把她的内裤脱了.
> 大夫：然后呢？
> 病人：把内裤上的橡皮筋抽出来,做把弹弓,再找些石头把你们医院窗户玻璃全部打
> 烂.
>
>
> (8)
> 两位精神病人A君B君同时康复,他们的主治医生对他们说：“如果你们其中的
> 一个
> 人犯病了,另外一个人就要马上把他送会医院.”
> 突然一天,医生的电话铃响了起来,原来是A君：“不得了了,B君从今天早上开
> 始爬
> 在我家的厕所里,非说他是我的马桶.”“快,快把他送来啊！”A君沉默片刻：
> “那……
> 我不就没马桶了吗？”
>
> (9)
> 精神病院里,一个精神病人每天都在一个空鱼缸里钓鱼.
> 一天,一个护士开玩笑地问：“你今天钓了几条鱼啊？”
> 精神病人突然跳起来叫道：“你脑子有毛病啊,没看见是空鱼缸吗？”
>
> (10)
> 有一个神经病院,那里住着很多神经病.
> 一天,那里的院长,为了看一下患者们恢复的情况,想了一个办法.就对这些患
> 者说
> , 你们都过来,说着在墙上画了一个门,说：“今天,你们谁把这个门打开就可以回
> 家了.
> ”
> 精神病者们一听,便一拥而上,把那画的门围了起来,院长觉得很失望,这时他
> 发现
> 有一个患者还坐在原来的位置没动,觉得还行,就上前问到：“你为什么不去开
> 门？”
> 他看了看院长,说了一句话,院长听了后是哭笑不得.
> 那患者偷偷的告诉院长说：“我这有钥匙.”
>
> (11)
> 医院精神科的患者常常会对医生或护士有爱慕的情结.
> 某日,一位女患者向某男医生走来……
> 女病患：蓝医生,你爱我吗？
> 蓝医生沈思许久（为了不伤及病人以免病情恶化）
> 蓝医生：我们呢是医生与病人的关系,因为你生病了所以我必须要好好照顾你……
> (为了不伤及病人,蓝医生解释了半天,终于解释完）
> 女病患：蓝医生,你的意思是说你不爱我喔？
> 蓝医生(苦思不语)：嗯……嗯……嗯……
> 女患者：还好……我爱的是陈医生……
>
> (12)某精神病人一直趴在病床上唱歌,唱着唱着突然翻了个身仰着继续唱,在一边观
> 察的
> 医生很奇怪的问:"你翻身干啥?"病人说:"你有病啊~!A面唱完了当然要翻过来唱B面
> 啦
> ~!"
>
> (13)某天精神病院下大雨,精神病人都脱光了衣服跑到露天的地方洗澡,只有一个病
> 人还
> 拿着毛巾呆在屋子里,医生看到了很不解的问:"别人都跑去了,你在这里干啥?"这人
> 说:"
> 他们全TM是SB,水还没热呢!"
>
> (14)某精神病院新来护士一名，此女初来乍到，见院中有一病人围着一口古井打
> 转，口
> 中念着：“13，13，……”小护士心中颇为奇怪，想不出这个“13”是何含义，连
> 续观
> 察几日，均是如此。她总想上前问个究竟，但害怕病人发作，始终不敢。
> 　　一日，小护士终于安捺不住好奇心，慢慢的走到那个病人身边，探头向井中观
> 望。
> 突然那个病人抱住护士的双腿，往下一掀，开始念：“14，14，14，……”
>
> (15)有一病人狂叫道：我是院长，你们都得听我的！！！
> 　　主治医生和护士问他：谁说的？
> 　　他回答：上帝说的。
> 　　这时候，旁边一个病人突然跳出来，说：我没说过！
>
> (16)一个病人第一次去看医生。
> 　　“关于你的病情，你来这儿之前请教过什么人吗？”医生问。
> 　　“只问过拐角上药房的老板，”病人回答说。
> 　　那位医生最讨厌那些不是医生的人常常提出医疗方面的建议，他并不掩示这一
> 点：
> “那个傻瓜给你出了什么馊主意了？”
> 　　“他让我来找你。”
>
> (17)一间精神病医院中，某个病患在写信，护士看到了就很好奇的问他。
> 　　护士：你要写给谁啊？
> 　　病人：写给我自己啊！
> 　　护士：那你都写些什么啊？
> 　　病人：你神精病啊！我还没收到怎么知道？？
>
> (18)精神病医院为病人请来了一位老师，是教美术的，院长对此事非常关心，一再
> 叮咛
> 大夫和病人不要怠慢了老师，就这样开始上课了，年轻的女老师，一上讲台受到了
> 非常
> 热烈的掌声，老师非常激动：“同学们，我们今天学习素描。”说完鞠了个恭，转
> 身在
> 黑板上画了一个苹果，然后对病人说：“同学们你们说画的是什么？”讲台下异口
> 同声
> ：“屁股。”“什么~~~~你们再说一遍！”“还是屁股。”年轻的女老师没见过这
> 个，
> 哭着跑到院长办公室对院长说：“这我没法呆了。”院长问为什么，老师说你去看
> 看
> 吧。院长一路小跑来到教室，进门就骂：“你们这帮乌合之众竟敢气老师，都不想
> 吃饭
> 了是吗！”而后回头一看：“这是谁，还在黑板上画个屁股！”
>

A Touching Story

A touching story and a good reminder :
"Take time to appreciate what you have now"


On the last day before Christmas, I hurried to go to the
supermarket to buy the remaining of the gift I didn't manage to buy earlier.

When I saw all the people there, I started to complain to myself, "It is
going to take forever here and I still have so many other places to go.
Christmas really is getting more and more annoying every year. How I
wish I could just lie down, go to sleep and only wake up after it..."

Nonetheless, I made my way to the toy section, and there I started to
curse the prices, wondering if after all kids really play with such expensive toys.

While looking in the toy section, I noticed a small boy of about 5 years old, pressing

a doll against his chest. He kept on touching the hair of the doll and looked so sad.

I wondered who was this doll for. Then the little boy turned to the old woman next to him,

"Granny, are you sure I don't have enough money?"

The old lady replied, "You know that you don't have enough money to buy
this doll, my dear." Then she asked him to stay here for 5 minutes while she went to look
around. She left quickly.

The little boy was still holding the doll in his hand.

Finally, I started to walk toward him and I asked him who did he want
to give this doll to...
"It is the doll that my sister loved most and wanted so much for this
Christmas. She was so sure that Santa Claus would bring it to her."

I replied to him that maybe Santa Claus will bring it to her,
after all, and not to worry.

But he replied to me sadly. "No, Santa Claus cannot bring it to her
where she is now. I have to give the doll to my mother so that she can give
it to her when she goes there." His eyes were so sad while saying this. "My
sister has gone to be with God. Daddy says that Mummy will also go to
see God very soon, so I thought that she could bring the doll with her to
give it to my sister."

My heart nearly stopped. The little boy looked up at me and said, "I
told daddy to tell mummy not to go yet. I asked him to wait until I come

back from the supermarket."

Then he showed me a very nice photo of him where he was laughing. He
then told me, "I also want mummy to take this photo with her so that she
will not forget me." I love my mummy and I wish she doesn't have to leave me
but daddy says that she has to go to be with my little sister."

Then he looked again at the doll with sad eyes, very quietly.
I quickly reached for my wallet and took a few notes and said to the boy,
"What if we checked again, just in case if you have enough money?"
"Ok," he said. "I hope that I have enough." I added some of my money to

his without him seeing and we started to count it.There was enough for the doll,

and even some spare money. The little boy said, "Thank you God for giving me enough money."

Then he looked at me and added, "I asked yesterday before I slept... for God
to make sure I have enough money to buy this doll so that mummy can give it
to my sister. He heard me." "I also wanted to have enough money to buy a
white rose for my mummy, but I didn't dare to ask God too much. But He
gave me enough to buy the doll and the white rose." "You know, my mummy
loves white rose."
A few minutes later, the old lady came again and I left with my
trolley. I finished my shopping in a totally different state from when I started.
I couldn't get the little boy out of my mind.


Then I remembered a local newspaper article 2 days ago, which
mentioned of a drunk man in a truck who hit a car where there was one
young lady and a little girl. The little girl died right away, and the mother
was left in a critical state. The family had to decide whether to pull the
plug on the life-assisting machine, because the young lady would not be able
to get out of the coma.


Was this the family of the little boy?

Two days after this encounter with the little boy, I read in the newspaper
that the young lady had passed away. I couldn't stop myself and went to

buy a bunch of white roses and I went to the mortuary where the body

of the young woman was exposed for people to see and make last wish before burial.


She was there, in her coffin, holding a beautiful white rose in her hand
with the photo of the little boy and the doll placed over her chest.

I left the place crying, feeling that my life had been changed forever.
The love that this little boy had for his mother and his sister is still,
to that day, hard to imagine. And in a fraction of a second, a drunk man
had taken all this away from him.

Send this message to everybody that you know; maybe you will help prevent

someone drunk to go driving.