Friday, May 26, 2006

A Story worth reading

Breakfast at McDonald's . Please read until the end.

This is a good story and is true, please read it all the way through until the end! (After the story, there are some very interesting facts!):


I am a mother of three (ages 14, 12, 3) and have recently completed my college degree. The last class I had to take was Sociology. The teacher was absolutely inspiring with the qualities that I wish every human being had been graced with. Her last project of the term was called "Smile." The class was asked to go out and smile at three people and document their reactions. I am a very friendly person and always smile at everyone and say hello anyway, so, I thought this would be a piece of cake, literally.

Soon after we were assigned the project, my husband, youngest son, and I went out to McDonald's one crisp March morning. It was just our way of sharing special playtime with our son. We were standing in line, waiting to be served, when all of a sudden everyone around us began to back away, and then even my husband did. I did not move an inch... an overwhelming feeling of panic welled up inside of me as I turned to see why they had moved.

As I turned around I smelled a horrible "dirty body" smell, and there standing behind me were two poor homeless men. As I looked down at the short gentleman, close to me, he was "smiling". His beautiful sky blue eyes were full of God's Light as he searched for acceptance. He said, "Good day" as he counted the few coins he had been clutching.
The second man fumbled with his hands as he stood behind his friend. I realized the second man was mentally challenged and the blue-eyed gentleman was his salvation.

I held my tears as I stood there with them.

The young lady at the counter asked him what they wanted.

He said, "Coffee is all Miss" because that was all they could afford. (If they wanted to sit in the restaurant and warm up, they had to buy something. He just wanted to be warm).

Then I really felt it - the compulsion was so great I almost reached out and embraced the little man with the blue eyes.
That is when I noticed all eyes in the restaurant were set on me, judging my every action. I smiled and asked the young lady behind the counter to give me two more breakfast meals on a separate tray. I then walked around the corner to the table that the men had chosen as a resting spot. I put the tray on the table and laid my hand on the blue-eyed gentleman's cold hand.

He looked up at me, with tears in his eyes, and said, "Thank you."

I leaned over, began to pat his hand and said, "I did not do this for you. God is here working through me to give you hope."

I started to cry as I walked away to join my husband and son. When I sat down my husband smiled at me and said, "That is why God gave you to me, Honey, to give me hope."

We held hands for a moment and at that time, we knew that only because of the Grace that we had been given were we able to give.

We are not church goers, but we are believers. That day showed me the pure Light of God's sweet love.

I returned to college, on the last evening of class, with this story in hand. I turned in "my project" and the instructor read it. Then she looked up at me and said, "Can I share this?" I slowly nodded as she got the attention of the class.
She began to read and that is when I knew that we as human beings and being part of God share this need to heal people and to be healed.

In my own way I had touched the people at McDonald's, my husband, son, instructor, and every soul that shared the classroom on the last night I spent as a college student.

I graduated with one of the biggest lessons I would ever learn: UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE.

Much love and compassion is sent to each and every person who may read this and learn how to
LOVE PEOPLE AND USE THINGS - NOT LOVE THINGS AND USE PEOPLE.

Wednesday, May 10, 2006

Are u a Good Cook?

You Are a Learning Cook

You've got the makings of an excellent cook, and the desire to be one.
But right now, you're just lacking the experience. You couldn't be a top chef yet, but you could be an apprentice.

Thursday, May 04, 2006

Follow HIM!!

Importance of Friends...

One day, when I was a freshman in high school,

I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.
His name was Kyle.


It looked like he was carrying all of his books.

I thought to myself, "Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday? He must really be a nerd."

I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon), so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.

As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.
They ran at him, knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt.

His glasses went flying, and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him. He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes My heart went out to him. So, I jogged over to him and as he crawled around looking for his glasses, and I saw a tear in his eye.

As I handed him his glasses, I said, "Those guys are jerks. They really should get lives. " He looked at me and said, "Hey thanks!"

There was a big smile on his face. It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude. I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived. As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before. He said he had gone to private school before now.

I would have never hung out with a private school kid before. We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books. He turned out to be a pretty cool kid. I asked him if he wanted to play a little football with my friends He said yes.

We hung out all weekend and the more I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him, and my friends thought the same of him. Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again.

I stopped him and said, "Boy, you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday! " He just laughed and handed me half the books.

Over the next four years, ! Kyle and I became best friends. When we were seniors, we began to think about college. Kyle decided on Georgetown, and I was going to Duke. I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a problem.

He was going to be a doctor, and I was going for business on a football scholarship. Kyle was valedictorian of our class. I teased him all the time about being a nerd. He had to prepare a speech for graduation. I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak

Graduation day, I saw Kyle. He looked great. He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school. He filled out and actually looked good in glasses. He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him. Boy, sometimes I was jealous.
Today was one of those days.

I could see that he was nervous about his speech. So, I smacked him on the back and said, "Hey, big guy, you'll be great!" He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled. "! Thanks," he said.

As he started his speech, he cleared his throat, and began "Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years. Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends... I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them.

I am going to tell you a story." I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met. He had planned to kill himself over the weekend. He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home. He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.

"Thankfully, I was saved.

My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable."

I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome, popular boy told us all about his weakest moment I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.

Not until that moment did I realize it's depth. Never underestimate the power of your actions. With one small gesture you can change a person's life.


For better or for worse.

Monday, May 01, 2006

~It's juz God's grace~

~But Jesus looked at them and said to them, "With men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible." Matt 19:26~

YAY! i'm sooo happy...cos i passed my last semester exams! after both my papers last sem, i can really say and admit that i feel super low n discouraged(the 1st 2 modules which i put in the most effort)...cos i do not know how to do those 2 papers at all! i practically left alot of blanks...i'm already even kinda prepared to retake even though i realy hoped to pass(which i felt is quite impossible)...however, when i found out about my results 2dae...i not only am shocked, i'm super happy too!cos i passed both papers!all i can sae it's really God's grace...He made it possible...i really thank God for all the constant blessings i've always received from Him...in this 1.5yrs of my studies, i've been struggling alot as i have to work too and the workload i have is kinda heavy esp during exam periods...what i usually do during exams is juz onli to study on the day of exam itself...as i do not have the time b4 dat...and guess what...my results have been fairly good throughout the 12 modules of exams i have taken...no failures at all whenever i always thought i might fail...really...these passes and some other better results do not juz come by like dat...they are all made possible by God n God alone...credits do not all come to me as i noe i always study last min...but during all these last min studying, i will always do my very best...and leave the rest to God...however do not be mistaken that i did not study and yet able to do well through God...you yourself (or me in my case) must put in the effort too...we are not to take God for granted...hmm...yup...anyway..there is still another 1.5yrs of studies...*faintz*...hahaz...hmmm...anyway...for the sake of my future, i will put in much more effort. :) haaz...hmmm...n really Thank You,Lord for always being there to guide me and give me the strength to go through all these(be it work or studies or even activities in church)...it's juz soo amazing...many people might not be able to take it...i might not even...but it's by God grace who made all things possible for me...yup...

anyway will stop here...take gd care...

God Bless n love ya all~

Friday, April 28, 2006

Feeling Stress?read dis...juz for laughs~

Mental Hospital

Jim and Mary were both patients in a Mental Hospital.
One day, while they were walking past the hospital swimming pool, Jim suddenly jumped into the deep end. He sank like a stone to the bottom and stayed there. Mary promptly jumped in to save him. She swam the bottom and pulled him out. When the medical director became aware of Mary's heroic act, he immediately ordered her to be discharged from the hospital, as he now considered her to be mentally stable.

When he went to tell her the news, he said, "Mary, I have good news & bad news. The good news is you're being discharged because since u were able to jump in and save the life of another patient, I think you've regained your senses". "The bad news is that Jim, the patient you saved, hanged himself in the bathroom with the belt of his robe. I am so sorry, but he's dead".

Mary replied, "He didn't hang himself, I put him there to dry"

Tuesday, April 25, 2006

IQ Test...

Your IQ score is 124!

You've got a very experiential way of learning and a strong mathematical mind and you have mastered the art and science of precision. That's what makes you a Precision Processor. For you, life is a series of equations.

Your brain is naturally predisposed to intense mathematical acuity, so it's second nature for you to cut to the heart of an issue, to discover quick solutions while others get bogged down in unnecessary details. This allows you to communicate a variety of ideas to other people, so don't keep it to yourself.

http://uk.tickle.com/test/iq/start.html

Truly Inspirational...MUST read!

Dear all

He's hoping to write his first book entitled "No arms, no legs, no
worries'…cool…be blessed….even if you're not a Christian, it is enough to
encourage u in many ways..



This is a True Story and he is now in Malaysia to share his life with us.
> Forward to friends to encourage them, life is beautiful because God has
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> A Remarkable Story
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> | |......To count our hurt, pain and struggle as nothing but pure joy? As my parents were Christians,and my Dad even a Pastor of our church, they knew that verse very well. However, on the morning of the 4th of December 1982 in Melbourne (Australia), the last two words on the minds of my parents was "Praise God!". Their firstborn son had been born without limbs! There were no warnings or time to prepare themselves for it. The doctors we shocked and had no answers at all! There is still no medical reason why this had happened and Nick now has a Brother and Sister who were born just like any other|baby. |
The whole church mourned over my birth and my parents were absolutely devastated. Everyone asked, "if God is a God of Love, then why would God let something this bad happen to not just anyone, but dedicated Christians?" My Dad thought I wouldn't survive for very long, but tests proved that I was a healthy baby boy just with a few limbs missing. Understandably, my parents had strong concern and evident fears of what kind of life I'd be able to lead. The first biggest hurdle was for my parents to be at peace and trusting that God was in control. It took a number of months of tears, questions and grief before that complete overtook their hearts. God provided them strength, wisdom and courage through those early years and soon after that I was old enough to go to school. There are a few people who assume that because of my physical disability that it meant that I'd also be mentally disabled. The law in Austr alia didn't allow me to be integrated into a main-stream school because of my physical disability. God did miracles and gave my Mom the strength to fight for the law to be changed. I was one of the first disabled students to be integrated into a main-stream school. I liked going to school, and just try to live life like everyone else, but it was in my early years of school where I encountered uncomfortable times of feeling rejected, weird and bullied because of my physical difference. It was very hard for me to get used to, but with the support of my parents, I started to develop attitudes and values which helped me overcome these challenging times. I knew that I was different but on the inside I was just like everyone else. There were many times when I felt so low that I wouldn't go to school just so I didn't have to face all the negative attention. I was encouraged by my parents to ignore them and to try start making friends by just talk ing with some kids. Soon the students realized that I was just like them, and starting there God kept on blessing me with new friends. There were times when I felt depressed and angry because I couldn't change the way I was, or blame anyone for that matter. I went to Sunday School and learnt that God loves us all and that He cares for you. I understood that love to a point as a child, but I didn't understand that if God loved me why did He make me like this? Is it because I did something wrong? I thought I must have because out of all the kids at school, I'm the only weird one. I felt like I was a burden to those around me and the sooner I go, the better it'd be for everyone. I wanted to end my pain and end my life at a young age, but I am thankful once again, for my parents and family who were always there to comfort me and give me strength. Due to my emotional struggles I had experienced with bullying , self esteem and loneliness, God has implanted a passion of sharing my story and experiences to help others cope with whatever challenge they have in their life and let God turn it into a blessing. To encourage and inspire others to live to their fullest potential and not let anything get in the way of accomplishing their hopes and dreams. As I grew older God continued to prepare my heart and teach me to seek Him. One of the first lessons that I have learnt was not to take things for granted. I had that wake up call around the age of twelve and realised just how much I was blessed with. I take my foot for granted, my family and the fact that I wasn't born in a third world country all blessings that God had freely given and I still complain? I came across; Romans 8:28 - "And we know that in all things God works for the best for those who love Him." That verse spoke to my heart and convicted me to the point where that I know that there is no such thing as luck, chance or coincidence that these "bad" things happen in our life. In; James 1:3&4 - "...know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything." I had complete peace knowing that God won't let anything happen to us in our life unless He has a good purpose for it all. I completely gave my life to Christ at the age of fifteen after reading John 9. Jesus said that the reason the man was born blind was "so that the works of God may be revealed through Him." I truly believed that God would heal me so I could be a great testimony of His Awesome Power. Later on I was given the wisdom to understand that if we pray for something, if it's God's will, it'll happen in His time. If it's not God's will for it to happen, then I know that He has something better. I now see that Glory revealed as He is using me just the way I am and in ways others can't be used. I am now twenty-one years old and have completed a Bachelor of Commerce majoring in Financial Planning and Accounting. I am also a motivational speaker and love to go out and share my story and testimony wherever opportunities become available. I have developed talks to relate to and encourage students through topics that challenge today's teenagers. I am also a speaker in the corporate sector. For more information on Nick's presen tations go to "Nick's Ministry". In recent years, I have learnt to become independent and can now take care of all my personal needs. I can do everything from brushing my teeth, combing my hair, dressing up, taking care of my personal hygiene and even shaving. I get around the house by jumpin' around and, outside the house, I get around in an electric wheelchair. I love to swim, fish and play soccer. I have a passion for reaching out to youth and keep myself available for whatever God wants me to do, and wherever He leads, I follow. I have many dreams and goals that I have set to achieve in my life. I want to become the best witness I can be of God's Love and Hope, to become an international inspirational speaker and be used as a vessel in both Christian and non-Christian venues. I want to become financially independent by the age of 25, through real estate investments, to modify a car for me to drive and to be interviewed and share my story on the "Oprah Winfrey Show"! Writing several best-selling books has been one of my dreams and I hope to finish writing my first by the end of the year. It will be called "No Arms, No Legs, No Worries!" You might think these goals are too far-fetched. However, I believe that if you have the desire and passion to do something, and if it's God's will, youwill achieve it in good time. As humans, we continually put limits on ourselves for no reason at all! What's worse is putting limits on God who can do all things. We put God in a "box". The awesome thing about the Power of God, is that if we want to do something for God, instead of focusing on our capability, concentrate on our availability for we know that it is God through us and we can't do anything without Him. Once we make ourselves available for God's work, guess whose capabilities we rely on? God's! I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." Philippians 4:13 God has a Great Purpose for your life! As far as your unanswered prayers, remember that God is Faithful. What are we to do when we are seeking but not finding? Jeremiah 29:12 - "Then you will call upon me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart. I will be found by you," declares the Lord... Take courage my friend for the Battle is the Lord's and I urge you to keep striving for the truth. For it is the truth that will set you free and the Peace of God that surpasses all understanding will reign in your heart. May the Lord Bless you as you diligently seek Him and grant you Godly Wisdom and Strength through your journey. If you know of an audience which may benefit from hearing Nick's story please contact us at lifewithoutlimbs@yahoo.com - Have a look and see if Nick is speaking in your local area! In Christ, Nick Vujicic |

Monday, April 24, 2006

~Yawnzzz~

~Trust in the LORD with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6~


hi peeps...here i am...blogging...in case receive more complains...heee....yawnzzz...super sleepy now...juz came back from lunch...good that i ate smthg...din have any appetite in the morning...duno y...but my doc says that i muz eat smthg...in case my gastric prob gets worse...yup...so i listened...hee...

hmmm...yah...it's been a week since my scope...yah...i din write abt my scope...hmmm...it's nothing scary afterall i guess...mayb it's juz a minor gastroscope...i thought i will have to b awake n feel the pain when the 'camera' goes down my oesophagus(duno how to spell)...but guess what?i guess i din really feel pain at all...n yup...i did sae a little prayer to God that all things goes smoothly...Praise God!...the nurse inject smthg into me to make me abit sleepy...den i tried to make myself sleep...n think abt God...as i noe...He works miraculously in us...as long as we believe n have faith...hee...yup...as written in Matthews 21:22 " If you believe, you will receive whatever you ask for in prayer." Thank you, Lord! after the 5mins 'operation' was over...i continued to sleep...although it may seem that i am sleeping...i can still know n hear what is happening around me n what the nurses do...had many dreams too..but too bad i did not remember any(i always forget all my dreams)...but i noe there are alot definitely about work... -_-''' hahazz...then after some time...i was being awaken by a nurse...who asked me to sign some stuff...wahaha...at dat time i'm still in a daze...but i juz sign anyway...haa...den she told me to collect my belongings...and they even prepared milo n biscuits for me!...wah...din noe the service so good...anyway...i did the scope in Gleneagles...heez...after dat i went over the nex building to see the doc who operate on me...a very nice n bubbly doc...v funny too...b4 i had the scope...he made me luff too...would like to thank my GP Dr Rodney Lim for referring me to him...Dr Tay(the doc who operate on me)is Dr Lim's "Shi Fu'...hee...Dr Tay also has a great secretary Donna...v nice woman...hee...yup...Dr Tay showed me the pic taken during the scope...explaining to me that my gastric area is inflammed...not a v good sign...but really thanks God that i've been constantly on the correct medication which helps in my condition...if not might get ulcer or even cancer...Thank you Lord...actually i'm that kinda person who wouldnt like to take medicine when i'm sick...but for this 'sickness' of mine...which happened months ago...i've been always taking my medication(feeling forced)...but i still take anyway...nv really think dat if i din eat it...my condition will get worse...guess it's God who miraculously planted the thought in my mind that i shld take my medicine...for my own good...anyway...many other ppl ard me like my doc n frens(n colleagues) will keep reminding me to take med...thanks!u all have been a great help!

hmmm...last week has been quite an ok week i guess...other than being kinda bz at work and having classes in the weekend...n yup...thur i went Hyatt to have a sumptous dinner...yummy...haaz...den on fri i had class...UC lecturer for the Entrepreneurship module came to teach...sat n sun also have his classes too...he's a very nice n encouraging guy...forgot his name though...hee...although i keep falling asleep in class...i still enjoyed his lessons...sat was a bz dae...went to giv tuition early in the morning...thereafter i went for class...2pm to 5pm...actually after that shld b at The Edge...but cos i gotta celebrate one of my good fren's bdae(from my ex JC)...he's Teck Hiang...my ah di...n i asked Zheng Da along...we three are always out 2gether...haaz...there's even a time they cooked at my place!...haa...we met up at my place..so that i can put my heavy book down at home...ate something...den went over to Settlers Cafe...we played from 8pm till 11pm...Evonne joined us...thanks...yup...we really had fun...playing Jenga Truth or Dare...hahaha...den we surprised Teck with a cake...hee...glad he njoyed...Happy 21st Bdae Teck!(on the 26th Apr lah)...welcome to Adulthood...wahahahaz...

then came Sunday...i usually love Sunday n Saturday too...cos can go to church to worship God, Sing praises to Him...listening to sermon n His Word...n fellowship with the ppl in church...but yesterday(Sunday)...i got lessons from 9am to 4pm!means cant attend church...n my church class--Purpose of the Church...but in the end i decided to go for church class and worship before going for class at school...heez...i dowana miss out any church class...class was good...although onli 3 students...i find it v interactive...i feel that i've learnt more...it's a Level 4 class...was told i shldnt be taking it as it might b too deep...but i believe dat i can...n i've also taken other levels classes...i dun see y i cant take it...i feel that since i'm put into that class by my Net Leader...it means that the class is meant for me to take...n i shld take it...n during classes...i feel that i've learnt more...n grown spiritually...yah i can admit it's kinda deep...but i'm willing to take in n learn from it...the teacher n other classmates are there to help mi n willing to ans my doubts...thanks...after class i attended the 1st part of the service...which is worship...heee...i juz love to worship God...sing praises to Him...will always feel the peace in me whenever i'm in church... :) after that there is Holy Communion...so i stayed for it...there's also prayers for ppl sick in the body...n i stood up to receive healing(cos i believe)...after that den i left for class...class was ok...there's video clip again...on IKEA...but i fell asleep again...haaz...after class...Leon came to look for me...n i was asked by Ben to meet him,shawna n joy up...i din xpect them to be goin church for evening service straight...n there we go...to Tampines church...Sorry Leon to have dragged u in...cos usually i will ask him 1st if he wana go in for service...but this time did not...juz go straight...i felt kinda bad though...i kinda knew dat u went in unwillingly...hmmm...when we reached...Kevin,Jacky n some others were playing Bang!...again...den ben,shawna n leon joined in...i din play though i wld like to...but afraid i'm too slow...cos i canot remember wat most of the cards mean...den service started...we went in...can see the reluctantcy in leon to go in...but he juz follow suit anyway...thanks...can see that the sermon bore u...paiseh ar...(i even fell asleep at some point of time as i was v tired too)...but i will still really hope that someday...u will not think dat sermons n services are boring...pray that u will one day find peace in God...n even accept Him...i've always been hoping and praying that ppl ard me will coem to noe Christ and see the goodness in Him...esp my family...n some of my close frens who have backslided too...so now wat i've gotta do is to keep on praying...n believing n having faith in God that they will be saved...n also noe it's God's timing when these people will come to accept Him...yup...hmmm...den after service we went for dinner...den headed home...that's how my week was spent...heez...

2dae is a new day of the week...Monday...hee...feeling kinda tired n sleepy even thought i slept early...haaz...n yup...it's Alan(my colleague) n Lionel (my ex neighbour's nephew) birthday!...Happy Birthday u both!...hee...
hmm...gotta end here...muz work liao...slacked too much...heee....thanks for reading peeps!...till den...wait for my nex blogging session~...heez...

take good care~
God Bless n Love u all~
Smilez always!!~~

Saturday, April 15, 2006

~Tired Saturday?~

~Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He shall give you the desires of your heart. Commit your ways to the Lord, trust also in Him, and He shall bring it to past. Psalms 37:4-5 ~

Hi peeps~ it's me...hmmmz...nothin to do...so juz start blogging...came home around 9plus 2dae...very good gal rite?on a Saturday nite i shld be out with frens but here i am...at home...rotting...haaz...been a tiring day...actually not tiring at all..juz that i am tired n sleepy...early in the morning i woke up to give tuition...9 am till abt 1plus...cos' i'm teachin at my cousin's place(her daughters)...i took a nap at their place cos it happens dat i need not go back office to work...thought it will be a short nap...in the end, i slept for abt 3hrs!when i woke up, i was like 'Oh shit! i'm gona be late for service!'...haaz...i quickly rushed off for the bus...from Tampines down to Yishun...reached abit late for worship...worship was great!...sermon was good too...about friendship...true or false frens...hmmm...many points to ponder about...the nex few weeks's sermon will be about frenship i guess...after service, i met up with my parents for dinner...luckily i did...b4 another cold war with my dad starts...heeez...it always happen...cos he's always unhappy i'm always not home...out the whole day...therefore, b4 i went for service 2dae, i decided to call my mum n tell them to meet up for dinner, a good decision i've made instead of goin out with frens for dinner...my dad was v happy...(lucky no cold war--it can last for many weeks where he will ignore mi even when i greet him)..hee...cos both my bros went on holidays...therefore only the 3 of us...we went for some good food since i am so 'guai' to meet up dinner with them...heez...after that...here i am...home...hee...n blogging...n rotting...hee...

anywayz...my whole body's aching...y?cos me, ben, xandra(with sirus-dog) n leon went jogging at East Coast Park...Ben...cos sick...therefore cycled...Xandra bladed, left me n Leon jog...so we have to hold on to Sirus...i was the 1 holding on to him...n yup...i think jogging w a dog(if it jogs too la) is good...my jog dat day was continuous...did not really stop...ongoing...glad i did not stop n kept jogging...i duno the distance we've jogged...but this jog definitely made my whole body ache man...guess is also cos i have not been jogging for months...way too lazy...haaz...but i can sae its a good jog...wonder when will be my next jog...haaz...
yup...yesterday was Good Friday...after the jog, our net met up for lunch...n some of us invited our frens...ate at Funan Swensens...n guess wat?i mistook Timothy as Jinlun!hahahaz...cos Tim is in the army now...hairstyle same as jinlun...even the specs...haaz...soo happy to see Tim...hee...we had a great lunch...fun talking...after that...we all went on our separate ways as most of them had smthg on...in the end i went shopping...bought a jacket for myself from Mango...using the vouchers i've received from my Bdae...i really love the Jacket(kinda like a suit jacket)...aimed it twice...thought for v long den in the end i bought it...after dat went to buy presents for afew frens...gosh...April is really a month with many ppl's bdae!haaz...there goes my money...fly away...wahahaa...got my pay on friday...n yup...gone by half...for mum,church,hp bills,insurance...blah blah...oh no...guess gotta eat grass for the rest of the month till nex 15th...sianzzz...money hard to earn...easy to spend...haiz...n somemore my pay is like...erm...nothing to say...work so hard yet get so little...how unfair can this world be?hmmm...
sianz...when will i have the money?i wana buy many many stuffs...specs...rollerblades...new handphone...probably a pda too...n aiya...lots to list out...but NO MONEY!haaz....sianzzzz...when will i ever get a GOOD paying job?i really juz cant wait for my graduation!!!heez...

anywayz...i duno wat to write liao...gotta go...wana sleep early...tmr early morning got classes(church)...den service...den decide wat to do after dat...heez...k lah...byez all...take gd care

God Bless n Love ya all~
Muackz!

Thursday, April 13, 2006

What is Love?

When you think of your past love, you may view it
as a failure.
>But when you find a new love, you view the past
as a teacher.
>In the game of love, it doesn't really matter who
won or who lost.
>What is important is you know when to hold on
and when to let go!
>You know you really love someone when you
want him or her to be happy, even if their
happiness means that you're not part of it.
>Everything happens for the best. If the person you
love doesn't love you back, don't be afraid to love
someone else
>You'll never love a person you love unless you risk
for love.
>Love strives in hurting. If you don't get hurt, you
don't learn how to love.
>Love doesn't hurt all the time. Though the hurting
is still there to test you, to help you grow. Don't
find love, let love find you.
>That's why it's called falling in love because you
don't force yourself to fall. You just fall.
>You cannot finish a book without closing it's
chapters.
>If you want to go on, then you have to leave the
past as you turn the pages.
>Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by
a single caress.
>It is a lifetime venture in which we are always
learning, discovering, and growing.
>The greatest irony of love is letting go when you
need to hold on and holding on when you need to
let go.
>We lose someone we love only when we are
destined to find someone else who can love us
even more that we can love ourselves.
>On falling out of love, take some time to heal and
then get back on the horse.
>BUT DON'T EVER MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE
OF RIDING THE SAME ONE THAT THREW YOU
THE FIRST TIME.
>To love is to risk rejection, to live is to risk dying,
to hope is to risk failure.
>But risk must be taken because the greatest
hazard in life is risk nothing!
>To reach for another is to risk involvement, to
expose your feelings is to expose true self, to love
is to risk not to be loved in return

Wednesday, April 12, 2006

The Most Important Question

The Most Important Question

We seem to spend an enormous amount of time evaluating questions about our future: what school we'll attend, what job we will work, who we will marry, and where we will live. These are important questions and deserve careful consideration. But have we given proper thought to the question which determines our eternal future?

If the Bible is simply a collection of stories and the thoughts of crazy men, then there is no eternity and you need read no further – the next several years are all we have, so make the most of them. But if the Bible is God's direct message, then there is nothing of greater importance! His message says we continue to live long after our physical body ceases to breathe. Though we pass from this earth, we continue to live - we either live in eternal joy and peace, or eternal pain and suffering. There is no greater question: Where WILL we spend eternity?

When Jesus died, He was nailed to a cross along with two other men. These men were thieves and both mocked Jesus for claiming to be the Son of God. But at some point during those long hours on the cross, one of the men demonstrated a changed heart and had his eternal future radically altered.

Luke 23:40-41 -- "'Don't you fear God,' he said, 'since you are under the same sentence? We are punished justly, for we are getting what our deeds deserve. But this man has done nothing wrong.'"

In the last moment of life, this common thief pointed the way to eternal peace. He recognized his sin and understood he deserved death. We ALL sin and fall short of God's standard; and this sin deserves death, eternal pain and suffering. But praise God we need not dwell in this hopeless state. The thief turned from his sin, toward Jesus as the One who would conquer death; "Jesus, remember me when You come into Your Kingdom" (Luke 23:42).

Though the thief had nothing to give, he surrendered ALL. God's Word never says there are specific acts which determine our eternal future. We are simply told to believe in Jesus with such a belief that we call out with complete surrender. When the thief recognized and turned from his sin, with humility toward Jesus as his only hope, Jesus answered as He promises to answer us today; "I tell you the truth, today you will be with Me in paradise" (Luke 23:43).

In that moment the thief had his answer. No longer a thief but a Child of God, he would live forever in joy and peace. Let's not allow another day to go by without knowing where we will spend eternity! Have we recognized and turned from the sin within our heart? Have we humbly placed our life in His hands? Do we really believe? Today, let's make sure we know the answer to the most important question.

Have a Great Day!

Steve Troxel
God's Daily Word Ministries

Monday, April 10, 2006

~I'm Back!~

~I guide you in the way of wisdom and lead you along straight paths. When you walk, your steps will not be hampered; when you run, you will not stumble. Proverbs 4:11-12~

There there...here i am...back again...into writing...y?cos i kena complained by someone that i did not write anything abt myself...onli on jokes and forwarded msgs...hee...but anyway...thanks to that person...i'm back here writing...gd rite?if i dun write den wat's the point of blogging rite?heee...aniway...i did not write much abt myself cos was really bz lah...those who noe me shld noe lahz...i'm always BZ...hahahaz...now i'm onli trying to slack off work and do some typing here...heeez...

Anyway...life has been kinda the same always...bz...haaz...and yup...as you have seen...i've uploaded some pics of my 21st bdae party! oh no...21 liaoz...adult...means gona get OLD very soon...argghhhhh...haaz...niwae...young at heart can liao rite?heez...hmmm...some details abt my bdae party...actually i wana organise it at sentosa...with those kinda tentage thingy...however, canot find those management ppl!!!so irritating!!!and i'm juz sooo bz to find anywhere else...i dowana have chalets as i think it will bore my guests off...cos will be a v BIG group with many other smaller groups of ppl within...n i want them to have fun...there and den i got to find out abt this wonderful place, Settlers Cafe...my frens kept praising abt that place and some are even regulars there...it's a Boardgame Cafe...n since my frens kept praising abt dat place...i might as well hold my party there(but the thing is dat i've never been to dat place b4!)...i emailed one of the bosses there...gave me the quotation...wow it's expensive!but i guess is worth it...as i have the assurance that although i cant entertain all my guests...they r still able to entertain themselves...hee...then came my Big day!3rd March 06...i booked 2 nites...the 1st nite i booked the whole place...level 1 and 2...made up the list of guests...who's gona go up n who's gona b downstairs...at first was quite worried many are not gaming ppl...might get bored(esp my colleagues)...but guess i'm wrong...they played soooo happily till forget abt me!hmph!i wana take fotos w them n they juz pretend i'm not there!...hahahz...but i'm really glad all had fun...the 1st nite...abt 110ppl turned up...happy...cos was kinda afraid attendance will b low as i got many last min ppl who put aeroplane...haaa...but dat's fine...n i'm sooo happy with 2 of my JC mates who took the effort to get me the cake ....with MASHIMARO on it!...when i saw it...i squealed with joy!hahaha...really happy...
now for the 2nd nite...i booked the upper level(loft)...these grp of frens are my church frens...and afew of my sec sch frens...i celebrated this bdae with jinlun...who is 6 days earlier dan mi...the cake was great too!from Winnie n family...thanks man!...hee...i guess my guests on the 2nd day had fun too...thanks all for coming...u all really made my 21st bdae most memorable...really happy u all had fun! :) and hey...thanks for the presents...all r great!1st time in my life with sooo many prezzies...heee...

n yup...i canot really remember wat happened the next few weeks...mayb juz the same...work...work...sch...sch...n church(which i love it!)...hee...anyway...the recent exams i was really disappointed...duno the results yet...however...disappointed...the 1st ever 2 modules in which i really took alot of time to study v hard for...studied 2wks b4 the exams...which are not the case for all my previous exams where i onli study on dat day itself...but the papers are real difficult...lotsa blanks...disappointed...but...all i can do is to leave it to God...i've done my best...He will do the rest... rite?heee...

oh yah...on 13th Mar 06 was my Godsis(my colleague too!) ROM...wow...sooo happy for her...i went too...hee...congrats Florence...hee...

March...n even april...are the months with many ppl's bdaes...broke man...hahahhaa...but really had fun at their bdae parties...thanks for the invites!

hmmm...now...abt the past few daes...bz...haaz...my weekends burnt...anyway...last fri...during net...was the ever 1st time i led in worship!...hee...happi...cos is for God...though kinda nervous...hee...sat was another bz dae...early morning went to giv tuition...den went to buy stuffs for my cafe duty at The Edge...thereafter i went to Marcus' bdae party...hee...yup...fun...it was also a farewell for Patrick n family(my Youth Minister)...really v v v v v v v v sad that they are leaving...cos Pat got a new job in KL...gotta b there for 5yrs...sobz...will really miss u all...but Charis n kids will stay for a couple of mths 1st b4 leaving...really muz spend more time w them...hmmm...will really miss them ALOT...hmmm...
den on sunday...went for service...b4 dat was class...n yah...was kinda shocked dat Leon turned up for service even how tired he was...thanks!...he also joined us for dinner after our evening service...hope he enjoyed...hee...

aiya...gotta go le...got class...bye all

God Bless n Love ya all~

smilez :)

Thursday, April 06, 2006

How flirt r u? (for females onli i guess)

--How much you flirt?? Now read this carefully!

Question 1.
Late at night, you are partying with a friend of the opposite sex. If
you don't leave now, you would miss the last bus. What would you do?

a. Who cares...continue to party -- Go To Question 2

b. Ask if he would send you home -- Go To Question 3

c. Say "Good-Bye" to him and run after the bus -- Go To Question 4


Question 2.
While having a meal with a friend, you saw that what he/she had
ordered seemed quite delicious. Would you ask to have a taste of
his/her food?

a. Yes --- Go to Question 5

b. No --- Go to Question 6


Question 3.
You saw something nice while shopping but you don't have the means to
buy it. Would you...

a. Shrug your shoulders and forget it. --- Go to Question 7

b. Go ahead and flash your credit card --- Go to Question 6


Question 4.
You have a job offer that is paying better than your present job. You
would...

a. It's a good offer. Type your resignation letter now
--- Go to Question 8.

b. The present boss is treating you well. Stay cause of loyalty!
--- Go to Question 7.











Question 5.
Your views on school regulations are...

a. Would never compromise to them. --- Go To Question 9.

b. See it there is loopholes and try to get thru them.
--- Go to Question 10.

c. Would definitely keep to them! --- Go To Question 12.


Question 6.
A person from the opposite sex expresses his/her love for you
would...

a. Smile and think highly of your charms --- Go to Question 9.

b. Reject him/her and keep a distance --- Go To Question 10.

c. Run off without even answering! --- Go To Question 12.


Question 7.
You are in your boyfriend/girlfriend's bedroom and you saw a photo of
him/her with his/her old flame. You would...

a. See and forget because it's all in the past. --- Go to Question 10.

b. Get real mad and leave the room. --- Go to Question 11.


Question 8.
Would you rewrite a lecture note again because your handwriting is
untidy?

a. Yes --- Go To Question 12.

b. No --- Go To Question 11.


Question 9.
When wearing a pair of mini skirts/ shorts, what would u choose as the
top?

a. A tight fitting tee --- Go to Question 13.

b. A loose fitting tee --- Go to Question 14.






Question 10.
On a tour, the tour guide specifically tells you not to venture to a
certain area because it's dangerous. Would you out of curiosity, go
ahead without listening to him?

a. Yes --- go to Question 13.

b. No --- go to Question 14.


Question 11.
When out with a friend of the same sex, would you hold hands and walk?

a. Yes ---- Go to Question 15.

b. No ---- Go to Question 16.

Question 12.
Wearing a newly bought swimsuit, would you feel especially
eye-catching' and 'sharp' when walking by the pool?

a. Yes --- go to Question 14.

b. No --- go to Question 16.


Question 13.
Are you the impulsive type? Always acting on the instant you get the
idea without thinking carefully.

a. Yes ---- Type A

b. No ---- Go to Question 14.


Question 14.
Do you still maintain friendship with your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend?

a. Yes ---- Type B

b. No ----- Go to Question 15.


Question 15.
Every time you pack for a tour, you would always end up packing more
than what you need?

a. Yes ---- go to Question 16.

b. No --- Type C



Question 16.
Do you mind sharing the same cup with others?

a. Yes --- Type D

b. No ---- Type C


1. END OF QUESTIONS














































2.
3. RESULT
4.
5. TYPE A --- 90% FLIRT
You fall in love easily most of the time getting trapped in a triangular
relationship. Adding to the fact that you do not commit to your partner,
you enjoy having suitors. To put it simply, YOU ARE FAR FROM FAITHFUL.


1. TYPE B ---
70% FLIRT
You are partially flirtatious by nature. You enjoy being pampered and
pursued by others so occasionally you would harbor the thoughts of
'stepping on 2 boats'. BUT...as you are sensitive to your partner, you do
try to restrain yourself.


1.
TYPE C --- 40% FLIRT
You are shy by nature and have only a small circle of friends. This
attributes to the fact that you would not have a high chance of getting
trapped in a triangular relationship.


2. TYPE D ---
0% FLIRT
You have high morality and it's against infidelity. Whoever is with you is
the most fortunate but pray that your partner does not belong to any of the
above group!

Tuesday, March 28, 2006

Hold my Hand...

Hold my hand . . .
> >>
> >> A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge. The father was
> >> kind of scared so he asked his little daughter, "Sweetheart, please
> >> hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river." The little girl
> >> said, "No, Dad. You hold my hand." "What's the difference?" Asked the
> >> puzzled father..
> >>
> >> "There's a big difference," replied the little girl. "If I hold your
> >> hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your
hand
> >> go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what
> >> happens, you will never let my hand go." In any relationship, the
> >> essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. So hold the
hand
> >> of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours

Tuesday, March 21, 2006

Winning Joke

This particular joke won an award for the best joke in a competition
organized in Britain and this joke was sent by an Indian.

Banta Strikes Back!!! Banta Singh walks into a bar in Ludhiana &
orders three glasses of Beer and sits in the back of the room, drinking
a sip out of each one in turn. When he finishes them, he comes back to
the bar and orders three more.

The bartender asks him, "You know, beer goes flat after I fill it in
the glass; it would taste better if you bought one at a time."
Banta Singh replies, "Well, you see, I have two brothers. One is in
Dubai, the other in Canada, and I'm here in Ludhiana. When they left
home,we promised that we'd drink this way to remember the days when we
drank together."

The bartender admits that this is a nice custom, and leaves it there.
Banta Singh becomes a regular in the bar, and always drinks the same
way: He orders three Beers and drinks them in turn.
One day, he comes in and orders only two Beers. All the other regulars
notice and fall silent. When he comes back to the bar for the second
round, the bartender says," I don't want to intrude on your grief, but
I wanted to offer my condolences on your great loss."

Banta Singh looks confused for a moment, then a light dawns in his eye
and he laughs. "Oh, no," he, says, "Everyone's fine - both my brothers
are alive"
"Only thing is ---- I just quit drinking"!

Saturday, March 11, 2006

Some fotos taken on my bdae (2nd nite) - 2


Bday Cakes...Choco Truffle n Tiramisu...Yummy~


Making a wish~~


Act cute pic...(there are even more of it...hee)


My bunch of old frens...




Ben again...pic spoiler~ -_-'''

Some fotos taken on my bdae (2nd nite)


What am I doing???


Me & Choon Kiat (many yrs of frens)


Drawn by Leon...Nice??? :p


Winnie & Family and Me :)


Charis & kids and Me :)

Thursday, March 09, 2006

Some fotos taken on my bdae...(1st nite)-2


My UC classmates


My Gooood Frens.... :)


Me & Carin (a fren of many yrs) :p


Pauline, Me, and Grace


My Sce Sch Frens...luv em' all~~

Some fotos taken on my bdae...(1st nite)


My Bdae Cake...Isn't it cuutteee???It's MashiMaro...given by my JC mates...love them man!


Me Cutting the Cake


Eric, Weixuan, Ber n Me (with ben -_-''')



My JC mates... :)


Settlers Staff & Me...Heartwarming isn't it?Nice bunch of people!